Should you text your ex? Get a straight answer
You’re about to open that chat. Maybe it’s a meme, maybe it’s “I miss you”, maybe it’s three paragraphs. Before you do, answer a few quick questions and get an honest verdict.
This quiz asks the things that matter for an ex: how long it’s been since the breakup, whether they’re seeing someone new, whether you actually miss them or just feel lonely tonight, and whether you’ve been drinking. It doesn’t ask you to read their mind. It gives you one verdict, and tells you what to send and when.
How it works
- Answer 12 quick questions (the last one is optional).
- Get a clear verdict: send it, wait, or put the phone down. No “maybe”.
- Add their name and your verdict comes with a message you can copy.
What decides the result?
Recent breakups and new partners pull towards “don’t”. Months or a year later, with a kind short message, it can be fine. Loneliness at midnight and missing someone feel the same, and they aren’t.
Some answers together get their own verdict. They’re seeing someone new? Don’t. Lonely and it’s after midnight? Text a friend instead. Months have passed and you really miss them? Send one kind line.
Great for
- 🫣 Before you open the chat: a reality check in 30 seconds.
- 🌙 Late at night: the moment you’re most likely to regret it.
- 👯 With friends: show them the verdict instead of the draft.
FAQ
How does the Should I Text My Ex quiz work?
Each answer adds or removes points. How long ago it ended, whether they are seeing someone new and whether you miss them or are just lonely count the most. Some combinations get their own verdict, like “Don’t” when they have moved on. Otherwise your total score decides.
Is it okay to text an ex?
Sometimes. Months after a breakup, with a short, kind message and no pressure, it can be fine. Days after, late at night or when they are seeing someone new, it usually is not.
Is it free?
Yes. No sign-up, no email, and nothing you enter is stored.